Make this a self priority:
“LIVE LIFE DELIBERATELY AND FIND MEANING IN EVERYDAY LIFE.”
— Cindy Cheta
Our lives are bittersweet, all over the map, then Wonderful. Like having a child crying, giggling, messy diapers; like a toddler with tantrums and then being silly. Like a pre-teen wanting to be an adult already; Like a teenager, brimming with emotions then flourishing with maturity beyond their years.
Like a parent with sleepless nights, endless work and great expectations; Like relationships with comical and endearment wraps our bonds of intimacy. Like maturity with bittersweet memories, physical decline and wisdom… easy to be caught up in the meaningless life one leads.
The demands of the day, the detours from our dreams and goals, illnesses, death, accidents… At no time are our lives totally under control – not as a dependent child, a starving student, young adult or busy parent. Yet, learning to live Life deliberately and with purpose. Rather than fighting with Life, we can resolve to live our best life.
Some of us start with great ambition and goals. Life intervenes and we fail in many things – the job or career we wanted, relationships take a detour, dreams are shattered. It can seem that fate conspires against us and things never go our way. Life can be a battle; however, it does not have to…
The Pain of Putting Others First
Some of us just go through the motions. We do what we are expected to do as students, employees, parents or friends, yet are not fully engaged. Our days slip by, we forget appointments or rush to do everything.
Everything and everyone about us is in constant motion and change. What is here today may be gone tomorrow. Some live passively.
Surrendering as if none of it is within our control, we take the job that comes and do it without question. We settle into painless relationships and do nothing to make them better. We float along to the end of our lives, then wonder where it all went.
Some of us live reactively. Life hits us, so we hit right back. We take a lousy job to pay the bills. We explode in anger to each successive frustration. We cannot win, but we keep on fighting.
— Cindy Cheta
It begins with making choices. Choose Happiness. In the hours of your day not consumed by work or duties, choose what you really want to do and with whom you wish to do this.
With your limited funds and resources, recognize your personal needs and honor your passions.
Do what you love to do; do what you need to do for you. Make it a self priority.
Life on Purpose
Where do you find meaning. You must find meaning or make meaning. Put your time and energies where your heart is. Resolve to live life more deliberately.
If you have a choice, have you chosen the work which best engages your passions and talents? How can you make this day more meaningful? What can you do today to bring more happiness to you and others? Reach out and let’s design your life by design.
Love and Light to each person reading this blog. Now ASK yourself, when was the last time you made YOURSELF a PRIORITY?
We’ve spent our lives perfecting the art of caring for everyone else, our families, friends, in-laws, even the pets. It’s like second nature, right?
Society expects us to be the best mom/dad, wife/husband, boyfriend/girlfriend, sister/brother, daughter/son, employee, etc. because nurturing is in our DNA… we’re born for this, hardwired to be the ultimate caregivers and nurturers.
But while we’re busy keeping everyone around us happy, where do WE fit in? Where do we prioritize ourselves?
When did we decide that our needs come last, or did it just happen because we never made a conscious decision about how we want to look, feel, live and experience?
Cindy, what happens when the day is done, when the house quiets down, and it’s just you and the mirror? Are you truly happy with the person looking back at you? Are you proud of yourself? Do you love yourself? And who’s there to take care of you?
The Master Key Experience teaches us how to look at the Gal or Guy in the Mirror.
Practicing Self Priority
There came a moment when I realized that if I truly wanted to be there for the people that I care about, I needed to start putting myself first so that I could give them my best possible version. Because in the process of putting everyone else first I forgot who I was, and lost my identity for a moment…
My life really began to transform when I finally asked myself the unavoidable question.
This is the question I am writing this blog to ask you…
What’s holding you back from putting yourself first and honoring yourself like you are the most valuable thing in the world?
Please take a moment and reflect on this and let me know by responding to yourself or to me…
I’ve assisted countless women and men break free from old patterns and created absolute freedom in their body, love life, and businesses… and it all starts with this conversation between you and me right now… where we identify what’s stopping you, so we can rewrite your story together forever!
At a very early age in my adult life I started to break the old blueprint of serving others first and realized I have no energy to do anything at the end of the day and exhaustion sets in…
Without any mentorship it was like second nature to forget me first, then everyone and everything else made my day more full of life and zest.
“I work, have peace, a business, money and I’m planning my next trip around the world!” That’s me!
Let’s join forces and create your life by design through the Master Key Experience. Don’t ever say you CAN’T. Dreams do not have an expiration date. It’s never too late to reinvent yourself. Start today. Get on our list and we’ll show you how.
