December 16


The Awakening: How I’m Creating an Ideal Life

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Is an ideal life possible? I first started to get the idea that I didn’t need to stay in my current circumstances; that I could shift those circumstances to something more desirable, to an ideal life. But the dreams I had seemed far off and impossible. Yet I kept to the idea that I could shift things. 

Doubts would creep in often. And reasons justifying why I couldn’t have an ideal life seemed very real. 

…”That will take years to get” 

…”How is that going to happen” 

…”How will I make the money to do that” 

…”What will other people think of me if it happens” 

Just to name a few.

But all those ‘logical reasons’ that seem real, aren’t real at all. They are just programmed ideas in the subconscious mind. Created from emotional trauma attached to money, success, confidence, self-image, achievement, society ‘norms’…  I realized this, even if that realization was weak in its presence.

The Shift Toward an Ideal Life

Faith outweighed the Doubts.  Even when those doubts existed, I kept the Faith outweighing the Doubts. 

How?   Well, I also gave myself reasons why I could. 

To get help with increasing my Faith and belief, I began to read and study,  I signed up for conferences and coaching. I made an investment in ME!

Obviously, a large portion of people reading this will say, “Good for you, I don’t have that type of money.” Well, I didn’t either. Since my Dreams were bigger than my Fears, I found a way.  I started where I could. The first course I invested in was less than $100.  The scholarship program offered by MKMMA is $1. I put forth a committed effort.   

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Yes there were those moments that I thought about giving up…I was tired, I was broke, and I just didn’t believe it was going to work for me.  But I didn’t quit…I kept going.

I asked myself the right questions.

—Who I AM?

—What is Manifestation all about?

—How does this Universe work?

__How do I accelerate this process?

My life became consumed by my learning. AND implementing what I learned. I tried to Implement EVERYTHING I could.  I knew I could just learn and learn and not get anywhere, So I focused on implementing. 


I couldn’t stay focused for more than 10 minutes in the beginning.  I had days that I was extremely down. 

But… Instead of doing ‘normal’ society things, I studied.  Instead of spending money on material things, I invested. Instead of learning and learning only, I implemented. 

Most people looking at me would label this life as boring, BUT, for me, it wasn’t. I would get SUPER excited for PROGRESS. 

 I kept focusing on Prosperity Consciousness—striving for  prosperity, affluence, and abundance. 

The most important thing for me again was implementation. 

I would listen to my own affirmations on loop. 

I would do my Visualization process 3X per day. 

I journaled a new story for my life.

Progress is now Clear

It can be a slow process, but every day I chipped away at the cement, little by little, uncovering my true self.  As I kept chipping away, I recognized that vibration and feeling are the same.

If there was a situation I was uncomfortable with, I knew it’s because of the standard frequency I was in. 

I relied on the tools that I had learned in my studies to assist me in making the shift to a better feeling.

It is all WORTH IT in the end! Even when the path seems difficult, it’s all worth it. 

Your future self will thank you for everything you do today. 

Accept your calling to help people, create a limitless income, create your Legacy, live a life of freedom…take a leap of faith and create your ideal life NOW!

Read more articles by Tonia Chandler

About the author

Dr. Tonia Chandler, board certified in family practice and pediatrics, has served her community for over 40 years.  She has spent the last 15 years studying personal development, working with leaders such as Bob Proctor, Mike Dooley and Mark Januszewski.  Currently, Dr. Tonia utilizes her consulting and coaching skills to help others live their best life.

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  • Tonia, thank you for sharing your journey. It is very evident that you have pressed onward and forward working with yourself to persist toward your ideal life in spite of the challenges along the way.

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